Beyond the basics?
A quick update tonight before I head out. Life has continued to be crazy. I apologize. There are a lot of emails and other things I'm behind on.
The other part of the update: me and Adam. The sex is still the same. Good but still not kinky. I'm not implying it has to be kinky, I'd just like more things.
I know that I have to tell him what I want. I'm planning to. I'm just worried of how he'll react. I've had guys in the past react negatively when I've asked them to do some things. Adam kind of reminds me of some of those guys.
The other part of the update: me and Adam. The sex is still the same. Good but still not kinky. I'm not implying it has to be kinky, I'd just like more things.
I know that I have to tell him what I want. I'm planning to. I'm just worried of how he'll react. I've had guys in the past react negatively when I've asked them to do some things. Adam kind of reminds me of some of those guys.
2 Comments:
At 2:37 AM, Anonymous said…
Molly,
It seems strange to me that all the world would not be willing to get a little bit freaky every now and then, but so be it. Any man who would refuse or look at you any differently for having kinky desires is, in my mind, a damn fool. I could only wish and hope for (but remain ever optimistic) that my lover would say the same to me, that she wanted it rough, that she wanted it kinky and freaky...if my lover ever told me she wanted to be my slut, well, that she would be.
I'm sure you know, I'm sure this has held you back to this point, but let him in on it slowly, as you did with having him fuck you in the ass...but at the same time, if this is what you want and crave, you are only letting yourself down by not bringing him into knowing and understanding better what you want so that you can be fulfilled in these, and any other ways.
Maybe this helped...? As I mentione,d I wish my wife was into freaky like you, but I think for the most part, I missed those days. Still incredibly lucky to be with someone so great though...best of luck, happy hunting and freaky laying... ;-)
At 4:56 PM, Rodney said…
I agree with the above comment as well. You may have to 'ease' him into....but don't cut yourself short.
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